If you have $5 million, $50 million, or even more to invest, you’ve probably realised something: most of the truly exciting opportunities don’t show up on trading terminals or in your private bank’s model portfolio.
They’re private.
Private equity—direct investments in companies that aren’t publicly traded—has quietly become a cornerstone of high-net-worth (HNW) and family office portfolios. It’s no longer just for the big institutions. In fact, 75% of family offices are now actively pursuing direct or club-style investments, bypassing traditional funds altogether.

But here’s the catch: getting into private equity the right way takes more than money. You need access. You need diligence. And you need to understand what you’re signing up for.
Let's unpack how private investors can successfully navigate the private equity landscape with clarity, confidence, and control.
Why Private Equity is So Attractive to Wealthy Investors
Let’s start with the “why.” Why are so many affluent individuals pouring capital into private deals?
1. Superior Returns (Historically)
Cambridge Associates reports that private equity outperforms public markets over almost every horizon. Over the past 10 years, U.S. PE funds have delivered 15–18% net IRR, compared to ~10–12% for public small caps. And that’s net of fees.
While past performance isn’t a guarantee of future results, it paints a clear picture: the return potential is real.
2. Illiquidity Premium (Reality Check)
You’ve probably heard about the “illiquidity premium”—the idea that because private investments are harder to sell, investors demand (and receive) better returns. Studies suggest this premium can be 3–5% per year, depending on strategy.
But there’s the nuance: not every private investment captures that premium. It depends on your entry price, structure, and timing. Locking up capital alone doesn’t guarantee alpha.
3. Tax Advantages
Private deals can be surprisingly tax-efficient if structured correctly:
- QSBS exemption (§1202): Potentially exclude up to $10M of gains from tax.
- Step-up in basis: On death, private equity holdings can reset cost basis, wiping out capital gains.
- Estate planning tools: Use of trusts, family partnerships, and carried interest structures can shift significant value tax-free.
In other words, PE isn’t just a return play—it’s a strategic one.
The Three Ways HNW Investors Access Private Equity
Not all private equity is created equal. Here’s how capital owners typically engage:
1. Traditional Fund Investing
This is the old-school route: committing capital as a Limited Partner (LP) to a fund run by a professional General Partner (GP).
Pros: Diversified exposure, professional management, access to large deals
Cons: High fees (typically “2 and 20”), blind-pool risk, long lockups
Minimum commitment? Often $1–5 million, unless you go through feeder funds or platforms that pool capital, but that adds more fees.
2. Co-Investments
These are sidecar deals—where a fund manager invites you to invest directly alongside them in a specific deal, often with reduced fees. They would conduct due diligence that you can rely on, and you would bring additional capital to provide more firepower.
Pros: Lower cost, more control, deal-level visibility
Cons: Time-sensitive, requires trust in the lead sponsor’s underwriting
Co-investing is a nice middle ground. You benefit from the GP’s access and diligence, but avoid some of the fund-level friction.
3. Direct Deals
This is the DIY version. You—or a syndicate you belong to—source and invest in companies directly. No fund, no GP, no carry.
Pros: Total control, tailored structures, full upside
Cons: Harder to source, higher risk, more legwork
Direct deals often start at $5–10M+, though minority growth investments can sometimes be done for less. If you choose this route, prepare to build an infrastructure that includes legal, financial, and operational advisers.
The Rise of Club Deals: A Quiet Revolution
Welcome to the future: club investing.
Here, multiple HNW investors or family offices come together to pool capital into a single transaction—think of it as a private consortium. No fund overhead, no blind pool, just collective muscle.
Why Club Deals Work So Well:
- Scale: Tackle bigger deals without taking on too much solo risk
- Expertise: Each participant brings something—sector insight, legal structuring, board support
- Transparency: You know who you’re investing with and what you’re investing in
According to PwC, over 70% of family office PE transactions in the U.S. are now club-based. This isn’t a trend—it’s a shift.

Real-World Example: Visionaries Club (Europe)
Founded by ex-operators, Visionaries Club brings together Europe’s most successful tech founders and industrial families (like Swarovski and Siemens).
Their model: invest directly in startups and scale-ups, then help them grow using founder networks and corporate access.
It’s a masterclass in aligned capital. It shows the power of club-style investing done right.
How to Evaluate Direct Private Investments
Once you’re in the deal flow, how do you separate gold from fool’s gold?
Here’s your due diligence cheat sheet:
- Revenue Quality: Recurring vs. one-off revenue? Gross margin trends?
- Customer Concentration: Over 20% from one client? Red flag.
- EBITDA Adjustments: Are add-backs realistic or creative accounting?
- Working Capital: Watch for seasonality and negative surprises in cash conversion.
- Cap Table: Is the ownership structure clean? Are there legacy claims?
- Legal / Compliance: Are there pending litigations? Unresolved ESG risks?
Tip: Always bring in outside eyes. At minimum, retain:
- A seasoned M&A lawyer
- A quality-of-earnings (QoE) accountant
- A tax planner
- A sector specialist who’s not being paid by the seller
Remember: private deals don’t have the disclosure protections of public markets. The burden is on you.
Putting it into Practice: What You Need to Know
Capital Requirements
Here’s a rough guide to what it takes:
Strategy | Typical Ticket Size |
---|---|
Fund Investment | $250K – $10M |
Co-Investment | $500K – $5M |
Direct Minority Deal | $2M – $20M |
Buyout (Lead Investor) | $10M – $100M+ |
There are exceptions, of course, but this gives you a framework.
Time Horizons
Private equity is long-term by design. Capital is typically tied up for 7–10 years, with exits in years 5–10. That means you’ll need a liquidity buffer elsewhere in your portfolio to avoid being a forced seller.
Building a Portfolio
A smart private markets allocation for HNWIs might look like:
- 50% traditional funds (diversification, access)
- 30% co-investments (cost control, selectivity)
- 20% direct/club deals (high-conviction, bespoke)
Ladder vintages across years, diversify across sectors, and don’t go all-in on one strategy. Think like an institution. But stay nimble.
Final Take: Access Beats Alpha (Until It Doesn’t)
The real challenge in private equity isn’t finding alpha. It’s accessing it.
As a private investor, your edge comes not from outguessing the market but from building a network, sourcing better deals, and structuring investments intelligently.
And as direct and club deals become the new norm for sophisticated wealth, the game is shifting from being “passive capital” to being a smart, engaged capital partner.
Get your hands dirty. Build your circle. Stay selective.
The best deals rarely come with a pitch deck. They come through a WhatsApp message.
Not financial advice.
Not investment recommendation.
Always seek professional guidance before making private investments.